An energy flow circulates when a person thinks something in his heart. Positive energy flow when a person bears appreciation or respects, otherwise, negative energy flow when he bears anger, complaint or insatiable lust. It affects strongly one's future life that which kind of energy he flows. A child grows up based on thought (energy) come from mother. If a mother respects her child during pregnancy, and nurtures child with love up to three years old, heart of child is fulfilled with positive energy, and steady foundation of personality will be made. And it is very wonder that mother's respect to her husband results positive energy flow directly into children, thereby a boy earns a same respect from people, and a girl gives love and respects to people in their life. Even if a child has been grown up, a mother is able to "re-nurture her children" by correcting her heart properly.

Mirai, institute of education have solved many problems of children by leading focusing such the attitude of the heart since the establishment on August, 1997. Many problems of children such as truancy, class disruption, bullying, social withdrawal, domestic violence, increase of part time jobber became obvious in this decade. It We have addressed these problems positively, and as a result, we have made many children normal and families happy. It takes one to three months to change the condition of child.

The period when such problems of children emerged is overlapped with the era; when people brushed off heart and concentrated on materialism, had an excessive notion of women's equality, which claimed men and women had the same role as well as rights, and such a perspective became popular. Energy of heart is primarily necessary for children to properly behave. There is "Law of heart" even if it is invisible, and it is the only way for finding solution to care based on the law. Mirai, institute of education would like to continue to disseminate proper "education of heart" through holding a lecture, workshop, seminar of education of heart, and so on.

If a woman goes out to work or does some volunteer work without fulfilling her responsibility in her family life, her children become lack of love, and she ends up worrying about the problems of bullying, truancy, social withdrawal, runaway, and so on, because there is no energy of love in her children's heart. At the present day, the women's participation in the working world are strongly promoted, however, it is the true participation when a woman faithfully takes care of her family which is the basis of her life before she goes out to work. Only women can give birth to children, men cannot. There is a hint. Equality is not always available and only women can give birth even if people claim equality of sexes and parenting. Everyone must obey this providence without protesting. Therefore a power of mother's love is needed, and the role of mother is great.

It is especially important that mother herself appreciates her circumstances. As a result, the child is taught the way of a beautiful life with appreciation in any circumstances. The worst way is to think"This is not supposed to be!" after marriage. If during pregnancy mother has thought of complaints that the circumstances differ from the selfish image, it is the same thing that she orders her child "You must always live your life with such complaints." The child comes to complain like "This is not supposed to be!" in every time after growth. To the contrary, if mother keeps a beautiful tongue, attitude and thought during bringing up her child from pregnancy, he will be nice. Mother's thought during pregnancy is the cornerstone of how the child respects others and how he is respected by others.

It was two years ago. My son refused to go to school when he was in the first grade, so I sought for the answer but I could not find it. My colleague got to know my situation and lent me a book titled "A child changes when the parents change ~ parenting volume". I read the book and noticed how my common sense, which was natural for me, had given many sufferings to my husband and my son. I worked enthusiastically as a banker for a financial reason; the thought that "I have to work hard and sustain our household expenses." However, my busy heart, which was too much concentrated to the job, made my husband and my son bitter and lonesome. After that, I cherished respectful heart as "husband first" and made an effort to devote love energy to my son which had been insufficient so far.And on this January my son said "Mother, I am happy to be born as a man. Today, I feel that I wake up for the first time" I was convinced that his heart was getting fulfilled with love. But, he was still unstable. One morning, when I went out to work, he clung to me saying "Mother, don't leave me!" However, I had to go to my office tearing myself away from him. When I saw my son crying and running after me, I thought that "Things cannot remain as they are. I want to stay with him and heal his heart" Then I thought about my previous life deeply and prayed to God from my heart. And my husband said, "I have a vision to make our living even if you resign." In the beginning of this April, I happily resigned with the help of many people. Moreover, to my joy I found that I become pregnant after an interval of nine years. Now my son goes to school cheerfully and my husband's job has gone well. And I am the Sun in my family and pouring love on them. I really appreciate what everyone has done for me.

My son was a very difficult child to get on with; he was late to learn Japanese from his infancy, so he could not have communications with others, he did not play with other children, and I and he could not feel close each other. In his infancy he had heavy atopic dermatitis and cried every night. And he was diagnosed as autism at a child counseling center just before he became three years old. We had counseling in many places but nothing was solved and I was worrying all the while. When my son was in the first grade, I had audited a lecture of Mrs. Kitamura titled "A child changes when the parents change", and I was taught a methodology of "Rebirth working of heart" which could purify my thought during pregnancy. After that, I noticed that I perpetuated a negative thought during pregnancy "Painful!! Morning sickness is killing me! My husband never understands me!" "I am very sorry." I apologized to my son from my heart. And I hugged him and murmured in my heart rubbing his body "I am very sorry for leaving you in such hard situation. Now I really appreciate your birth." For several days I continued doing so, then he came to smile and have some talks with me. And now, he says "I like all classmates." I changed myself, either. In my childhood I had no experience to get good words from my parents and was always scolded or hit by them. I remembered that I blamed or cursed others because of the severe and bitter circumstances, and thought about myself deeply with tears. And I blessed myself and made efforts to be in a positive manner. To my surprise, an appreciation to my parents stirred in my heart and my previous negative thought was purified, and then I felt refreshed. I am deeply grateful for my son's opening my eyes.

Several years have passed after I first met Mrs. Kitamura. Mrs. Kitamura said every time "You have to respect your husband, and you will be happy." I thought I knew the importance of respect to husband, however, I actually could not respect my husband from my real heart. Then, my son refused to go to school when he was a high school student. Mrs. Kitamura said "When you get married, you have to dispose of all gifts or everything relating with your former boy friend. It is the worst heart for a wife to give more than a passing thought to men except her husband. Energy from such impure heart is wrecking the husband gradually and thrusts him upon a sad life." I went with another man before marriage. I remembered that pictures, diaries, clothes of those days were left in the closet. I thought that was bad, and looked for such all materials and threw them away. I burned out all combustibles on a beach. During that time I prayed happiness of the man and imaged that the he was fading away. I apologized deeply that I could not love my husband from my heart and I had unconscious betrayal against him during our married life. And I prayed that I would like to respect my husband from the bottom of my heart and devote myself to him. I came to feel at ease when the combustibles became clean ashes without notice. I could not stop my tears thinking my dear husband waiting for me all the time. That night, though normally my husband had few words, he was very serene and talked many things to me. After a while, my son woke up early in the morning and said "Wow, I feel refreshed, though I don't know why. I would like to go to school." I recognized that "Energy from wife will flow through husband to child." I was very glad that our family became to understand each other's hearts at last after twenty years' married life.